Monday, March 23, 2009

The More You Know

It is easy for us to decide who we think is best for our lives, and who is going to come through in the times when we need them most, however like my father says "the proof of the pudding is in the eating!" I have been able to find out more and more who's really in my corner, who can really be counted on, who really is reliable, who really does what they say and who is generally and genuinely happy for my success'. It can be looked at improperly and taken as hurtful information when you find out that someone you thought was in your corner actually wasn't, yet better to learn that now then down the road. The next biggest step is accepting these discoveries as what they are and not making excuses for people being who they are.

I continue to feel that I have been blessed with an incredible team of supporters and though that group might not be as large as I initially thought, it is however stronger then ever imagined. My sister, my brother in law, my mother, my little brother, my cousins, a few of my ninjas, etc. make up a group of people that I wouldn't trade for the world. I appreciate this group because their not just there when I need them, but they tell me what I need to hear when I need to hear it. I would encourage everyone to take a real assessment of those in your circle and find out who's just taking up space and who's really contributing.

Truth sets you free and Trust sets you up
The air leaves the room once the bubble gets bust
I use to see through a clouded perspective
However the clearing of the smoke has made me much more selective
Peoples flaws I have accepted
None of us are perfect
Yet some are in our lives that are quite undeserving
If you can accept this fact without becoming emotionally attached
You'll find letting these people go
Allows you to interact
With those that contribute
So instead of experiencing a lapse
You find your circle is even more now intact
I have come to grips with people and the truth
No question about it
The only question now is....WHEN WILL YOU?

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